What makes guys attractive

Limbal rings may signify youth, vitality, and health — all necessary for reproduction — and limbal rings do fade with aging. Very young children have the thickest, darkest limbal rings. If you're now wondering what else appeals to women, get to know these physical and emotional traits that may increase your sex appeal. Women are least attracted to images of happy men and most attracted to images of prideful men, even though we may not think of pride as a desirable emotional trait, according to researchers from the University of British Columbia in Vancouver.

They asked more than 1, adults to rate the sexual attractiveness of men in various photos. Many women are drawn to power, like men are drawn to beauty. A strong immune system can possibly imbue you with sex appeal. A study published in the journal Nature Communications found that men with high levels of the hormone testosterone and certain stress hormones also have stronger immune systems and tend to have more masculine facial features such as a strong jawline — a sexy physical trait.

The authors of this study suggest that this combination may be a way that hormones help attract women to men. Men with a strong chin and a strong brow are more attractive to women who are ovulating, according to a study published in the journal Evolution and Human Behavior , based on interviews with 66 heterosexual couples.

The authors of the study suggest that when women are looking for someone to mate with, there is an evolutionary attraction to strong facial features because they are linked to stronger genes. In addition to strong features, new research published in the journal Proceedings of the Royal Society B found that weight may also be a factor in attraction.

While the women in this study responded favorably to a strong jawline in men, they used thinness and fatness to cue them into a man's overall fitness level more than any macho facial features — and the fitter the men appeared, the more attractive they were , perhaps because of the same desire noted in other studies for a man with a strong immune system. Men described as "generous" won points with women who participated in a study published in the British Journal of Psychology.

Women believed these men had great sex appeal for long-term relationships or simply a single date; altruism got high marks as a good character trait. This is why spoiling them with a home-cooked meal will make you look way more attractive than being the cutest guy or having the biggest muscles. Amazing recipes are all over Google. Knowing how to dress comes with several advantages, such as a greater sex appeal and higher workplace wages.

What really matters though is that the way a man dresses can say a lot about his character. And attributes associated with dressing nicely, including confidence, intelligence, and sophistication, are often translated into the perfect partner. There are many glamorous and also easy-to-pull-off outfits you can try. Chinos with rolled-up sleeves, for instance, are trendy and every man has these two items in their wardrobe.

On the other hand, if you want to spice things up a bit, you can go for a modern suit and some fancy accessories. It sounds pretty easy, but there are some things you should keep in mind. The same words could be taken in various ways after all. Watch your tone and body language for traces of condescension. Something else you should keep in mind is to find harmony. Being a modern gentleman is about making her feel good and not about feeding your ego.

Nowadays, just shaving is not enough. We used to think that taking care of our bodies was more of a feminine trait. Men of the 21st century care about their hair, skin, and nails just as much as women do, and this is nothing but positive. Grooming will display a sense of self-respect, professionalism, and responsibility. It also helps you be more confident. And we all know that nothing is sexier than a man absolutely secure with his masculinity. Start with the right hairstyle and clothing since these are the first things women notice when they see you for the first time.

After that, work on everything else and get ready to have potential partners swoon at your feet. There are many hobbies you could take up that would instantly make you more interesting and attractive, but there are two that I think are the best ones. The first one is volunteering. Helping other people is not only for the greater good, but also for your own self-esteem. There are many diverse groups out there in need of help, from people to animals, and from children to the elderly.

But be sure to only do this with genuine intentions at heart. The other one is learning an instrument. Who said toned legs only look attractive on women? Developed calf muscles and a good hip ratio is actually considered to be remarkably sexy in men. I can assure you that women will notice if you have a healthy lifestyle or not, and most of them will absolutely love the fact that you care about your body. Busting your butt at the gym to get a toned body pays off especially when you notice that you have more energy to spend your day.

This means that you have more fire to work on yourself and be the man that can turn heads. Laughing is one of the greatest pleasures in life. Having the ability to make a woman laugh is one of the most charming traits. When it comes to romantic connections, humor can really seal the deal. According to recent studies , when strangers meet, the more times a man can make a woman laugh, the more likely it is for her to be attracted to him.

A quick-witted mind can also be a sign of intelligence. We all love the smell of a good cologne. They will love wearing your clothes and sleeping on your pillows if they have your distinctive smell. You have to use just the right amount of cologne. Finding the right scent for you is crucial. Having a distinct fragrance also makes you more memorable. So if you want to be remembered, this is the way to go. It is a reflection of your personality, style, and identity. Some people can even identify others by the way their hair looks.

Straight, curly, short, long, or bald—your hair is your best accessory. In order to have good hair, make sure you have the proper hygiene habits to maintain it.

I suspect but do not know that men respond to these ads expecting these girls will be more compliant, subservient, and 'obedient' than their American and Canadian sisters.

What's your opinion? And into the mix, I further suspect tha American and Canadian men are growing weary of measuring up to the standards of the strong, assertive 'new' woman. For good or ill, they long for a woman content to live the stay-at-home, so-called secondary role women played50 - 75 years ago. Seems an issue related to the quest for 'foreign' beauties. I'm sure it was, but there is no reason for her to ignore your texts.

You can always approach her, but don't be disappointed if she acts disinterested. How did you get her number? Did she give it to you? If so, you should move on or Stop with the eye contact thing.

It's useless to give attention to a player who could not care less about your feelings. We had deep eye contact when couple of times we bumped into eacother. If you're saying the same girl does both things, then it could be she would rather you speak to you in person than receive a text.

But most likely, she is playing you. She's the type of girl who needs to feel desirable. It probably gives her ego a boost to know that you're still interested even though she ignores your texts. Frankly, I would move on. You should totally ignore her and not make any eye contact whatsoever.

She could use a taste of her own medicine. Good point, Nell. If you don't have a sense of humor, the rest is moot. Thanks for the reminder :. I always tend to look for humor first. If a guy makes me laugh then he is well on the way to being what I like. Really interesting stuff! No question that women look at the overall picture where men are concerned.

She is the one who feels compelled to think about her future children, and naturally, this is why she must choose her mate well. Loyalty, ability to protect and support her, etc. In dating relationships, perhaps five years or less. For marriages, the average time is eight years. However, I prefer not to think in those terms. It's too defeatist. I will say that if a couple dates for many years and if that union does not lead to marriage, then one party the one who wants to be married will ultimately call it quits.

Maybe that was the case with the Chinese woman? Perhaps the parents wanted a marriage. Honestly, I have no way of knowing, but if that were so, I wouldn't blame them. Too bad about the Chinese woman. Maybe you should consider a Brazilian beauty. They're exotic. You'll meet some who is right and whose parents can accept you as wellin time. I've had several long term relationships. The last was with a much younger! Chinese lady and although her family destroyed us she was the nicest kindest lady I ever met and she didn't want to leave which was very moving.

I see. I have some familiarity with the Chinese culture, but not enough to advise you properly, I fear. My step-sister married an Asian man and things did not work out due to his possessiveness.

You are a different and highly refined man. Have you thought about dating outside your race? Again, not meaning to be politically incorrect. Unfortunately I need all my fingers for art and piano!

The ex's mistakes often literally follow them around. Many women have a biological attraction to macho men even if they are white collar women. It's a perilous path for males with dozens of rivals out there.

These are biological factors relating to all mammals. Many women like to be fought over both figuratively and literally.

I've often got the better of rivals if the female is present but it's what happens out of sight that gets weird. Oztinato, you might be better off trying to meet women who are used to dating men who are a bit more "white collar.

If the fist fight thing is the ex's only "virtue," wellthat's not saying much about the other guy, and I have to wonder why she chose him. Just know that a worthwhile woman can feel safe with a more sophisticated male, provided he has an even temper and the ability to wither a rival with his demeanor, although he shouldn't have to prove he is Clint Easteood, either. I've seen the competition cleverly use the "feeling safe" idea by using threats to raise the idea they could do a better job in a fist fight.

The jealousy is due to the fact I have professionals skills in art and piano vs they might be labourers etc. You are correct. We women don't know about that particular drama.

Thanks for letting us in on the secret. I imagine it is awfully difficult to keep one's "cool" or composure under such circumstances. But all we can do is plow ahead and hope for the best.

All you can do is to remain sympathetic to her, while maintaining your own male spirit. In the end, all we can do is stand our groundeven if it ruffles the feathers of the "rooster" relatives. The involved parties will deal with it if that is their only real option.

If the woman isn't understanding, well The ex's opinion should be of no concern to her. He is an ex for a reason. I'm not good at how to deal with relatives and ex's as it seems out of my control. This is a typical thing from the invisible male world that maybe women don't know about. It's more like an episode of the Simpsons combined with a dash of Stephen King. Thank you, sweet word I recently made a few changes on the hub, so I am gratified to hear that it isn't too bad.

Hi savvy, this was powerful wisdom for guys to know and believe in. I enjoyed reading this. You hit it right on the head. May you continue with successful writing.

Voted up! God bless! Good question, moonfroth. Any relationship of convenience is nothing more than a transfer of money for goods. No woman really wants to her worth to be attached to a price tag….. Your average woman wants to believe she is viewed as priceless, and that she is not a mere convenience.

Consequently, my thought is the mail order bride phenomenon is a mistake. It cheapens what ought to be valuable, namely, lovethe kind that two people form together and which is based on feelings of respect, attraction and mutual values, rather than whether one is a Scandinavian blond built like a brick house.

That being said, I knew a man who ordered his bride. She stayed. He was creepy. Anyway, even internet dating can be problematic if either party expects instant gratification. You have to take the time to build something solid and meaningful. Otherwise, the relationship will almost always fall apart at the first gust of wind. But, you know all that. Thanks for asking. Hello chaitanyasaivb. It is not always an easy thing to combine gentlemanly qualities with raw maleness. It can be done, but it is rare.

In short, it is a matter of giving yourself permission to express both qualities. I do not mean to sound too simplistic, but think of it as an attitude that is acquired through consistent practice. If it is any consolation to you, women also feel rejected by men for not being attractive enough. Thank you kindly for stopping by. I appreciate your comment very much. Savvy - increasingly, I see adds on TV for electronic dating.

The perfect mate is guaranteed, forget the bar scene, the perfect woman for you is in our data banks, meet a beautiful Russian lady, Asian women for seniors you too can meet a left-handed 6' tall Lithuanian blonde What's your opinion of this 'modern' way to get a date?

Its not a easy task to attract a woman, sometimes. Because, Now a days, we will find many woman rejecting a person, who has got all the qualities of a gentleman. But, your tips are good. Hope, People may follow, to attract a woman. I am very happy if I was able to be of help to you, sabna Sajin. Thank you for stopping by to leave such a lovely comment. Best wishes to you. Ooooh ok, thats interesting I will be following you in here for your new and fresh interesting ideas Ok, i think i didn't express that well, my apologies.

What i meant to ask is, are you dating coach? Because i find your tips very insightful, like someone who is very experienced with men Hello Danext Thank you for the votes up. PUA is a term reserved for men who pick up women. Consequently, I don't qualify. That being said, I am not a woman who picks up men. Never have been.

But I do know how women can attract men without having to resort to getting fake body parts, etc. It's a thing of confidence, posture, style and other subtle "ways of being.

Very informative, bulk of helpful tips in one article, explained well Hi tomy You are very gracious. Thank you for pointing out that there is a distinction between long term and short term. Glad to have you stop by! Good information to a guy that writes about ,"How to pick up women" type hubs. In general, a woman just wants respect and likewise. Dating material such as my pick up articles are not meant for long term romance. It is good to make a distinction over what is real and long term as you have versus the short term, one night fling, I tend to write about.

Thank You. Hi Rayne I didn't take it that way. I just wanted to expand upon that thought of young women because I suddenly remembered how not knowing I used to be. Mostly, I was just very pleased that you enjoyed the hub and left such a fine compliment about the hub being powerful and beautiful! Yes thank you, I read it again this morning and hope it didn't come across as all young woman, as some are way beyond their years, especially today.

Just as some older ones may be still in that place. But as you said we do gain a bit of maturity and that maturity gains us a bit of knowledgeable information. Thank you kindly, Rayne When I was young, I was too inexperienced to be able to read men well or even know what I should be looking for.

Now I can spot things that a lot of people might dismiss. But that's an aside to your comment.